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As always, Brian, I am mostly in radical agreement. We condition our children to hate education and to suppress their natural curiosity and enthusiasm. I would even go a step further and say we actually gaslight them, insisting that their intuition is wrong and they're really somehow going to need all the random bits of information they are forced to internalize. If you've never read Jacque Ellul on the subject, I recommend it-- he goes so far as to say that our education conditions us to be propagandized as adults and thus, obedient little citizens ripe for control.

But let me try to make the counterargument. I've been an educator for 15 years, and a student my entire life. Nobody really *wants* to study. Nobody really wants to concentrate for hours. *Some* learning is in fact fun, spontaneous, meaningful, engaging. But most isn't: it's just work. Learning something new and unfamiliar will *feel* unnatural, particularly because (as Daniel Kahneman pointed out) we are cognitive misers and System 2 thinking is energy-intensive, literally painful. Why, then, do we coerce people into doing it? Why children, in particular?

I would draw the analogy of joining a sports team. When you sign up, you essentially acknowledge you are entering into an unequal and authoritarian relationship. It's not about your feelings and it's not about your choices. The coach tells you to run three laps, you run three laps. The coach tells you to keep your arms up, you keep your arms up. It's not a discussion. Some things won't appear to make sense. So why not just put all the kids out on the field and encourage them to "explore"? Why not just allow every kid to make their own meaning and acquire the skills at their own pace?

Because the coach knows something the player doesn't. The coach knows what "good" looks like and how to get people there. The coach knows all the mental and emotional barriers someone will encounter, the tricks the mind plays to justify compromise and failure. The player thinks "I can't ever be that fast" and the coach thinks "But actually you can." The player thinks "This hurts and I don't see the point" and the coach thinks "I know, but push through it and later you'll understand."

The best athletes aren't the ones who directed their own training. Learning, especially for children, is the same way. Children (even exceptionally bright ones) aren't prepared to recognize their own psychological barriers, the self-serving rationalizations for not working. They won't be able to see that when their brain says "Today isn't the right day" that actually NO day is the right day. They won't be able to see that when their brain says, "I'm just not any good at this subject" that that is just a compensation for, "I didn't realize how hard this would be, and I'm intimidated."

Now let me describe the other side of the coin. You may know I teach diplomatic professionals, some of the smartest and most educated people in the country. They're passionate and they're dedicated.

But my classes don't have grades or any other kind of coercion. I work hard to design complex and multi-faceted scenarios that challenge them to think about competing priorities and necessary trade-offs, that foster creative thinking and make them better. Most follow along and engage. But quite a few use their "freedom" to simply Google the answer or *change* the scenario, to remove the dilemma so they don't have to confront hard choices. And when I confront them, they will shrug and actually say: I didn't WANT to make that decision. That decision made me feel uncomfortable. I prefer to make *this* decision over here, which is more in line with my feelings about the way the world should work. And in the extreme, they will actually *complain* to my management that I put them in a hypothetical situation that made them feel uncomfortable. Yes, really.

Agency, emotional engagement, and relationship-building I agree with. But students are not always the best arbiters of what they should and shouldn't learn, or should and shouldn't feel.

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